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Hair Care Guide: Nourished (Wash Day + Protect Your Hair)

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There’s a quiet kind of beauty that happens on wash day; the pause, the reset, the feeling of caring for yourself through small, thoughtful rituals. Whether you wear extensions or your natural hair, how you wash and protect your hair determines how healthy, shiny, and full of life it feels day to day.

This isn’t about perfection or a complicated 10-step routine. It’s about learning to listen to your hair and giving it what it truly needs to stay nourished, balanced, and strong.

Healthy, nourished hair is the result of small, consistent actions. Just like skincare, your hair flourishes with routine.

Schedule maintenance appointments every 6–10 weeks if you wear extensions. This keeps your natural hair healthy and ensures your extensions remain seamless and secure.

Between appointments, trust your stylist’s product recommendations; they’re designed for your specific hair type and method. Avoid overloading your routine with too many new products; simplicity is luxury.

Reset and Wash With Intention

  1. Think of your wash day as a ritual, not a chore. It’s the foundation of every healthy hair routine.

    Before stepping into the shower, gently detangle your hair using a wide-tooth comb or extension-safe brush, starting from the ends and working up to the roots. This prevents unnecessary tension — especially important if you wear extensions.

    Use lukewarm water to begin. Hot water can strip your natural oils and dry out both your hair and scalp. Choose a sulfate-free, moisturizing shampoo designed for your hair type or your extension method. Focus on your scalp first — that’s where most buildup lives.

    Massage with your fingertips (never your nails) in small circles to lift impurities and stimulate circulation. This not only helps your hair grow stronger but keeps your scalp balanced and calm.

    If you wear extensions, gently separate each row or section while washing to ensure your scalp and wefts are thoroughly cleansed. Rinse well, and repeat if needed.

  2. Conditioning is where nourishment truly begins. Choose a lightweight, hydrating conditioner or a silicone-free mask once a week.

    Apply from mid-lengths to ends, and let it sit for 3–5 minutes. For extensions, focus only on the natural hair to avoid softening or loosening the bonds or wefts.

    Rinse with cool water to seal the cuticle, this step helps retain moisture and enhances shine.

    Once a week, treat your hair to a deep hydration mask or oil treatment. Think of this as a self-care moment: put on a robe, light a candle, and let the product do its magic while you slow down for 15 minutes.

  3. How you care for your hair after wash day determines how long your style and your extensions  last.

    • Towel Dry Gently: Use a microfiber towel or cotton T-shirt to blot, not rub. This prevents frizz and breakage.

    • Leave-In Conditioner: Apply a lightweight, extension-safe leave-in or serum to detangle and add moisture.

    • Heat Protection Always: Whether you’re blow drying or curling, never skip a thermal protectant. It’s the invisible armor your hair needs.

    • Drying Extensions: Blow dry the roots of your extensions fully to avoid moisture buildup that can weaken bonds. Then let the ends air dry if you prefer.

    At night, protect your hair with a silk pillowcase or bonnet. These small habits preserve your style, reduce friction, and extend the life of your extensions.

When you slow down enough to truly care for your hair, something shifts. Your wash day becomes more than maintenance, it becomes a ritual of renewal.

Healthy, nourished hair isn’t just a reflection of your products; it’s a reflection of how intentionally you care for yourself.

So take your time. Let the water run through your strands. Breathe. Nourish yourself and your hair fully.

How to Know If Your Hair is Ready for Extensions

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There’s something undeniably powerful about a fresh transformation, the kind that doesn’t just change how your hair looks, but how you feel when you catch your reflection. For many women, hair extensions aren’t simply about adding length or volume; they’re about reclaiming confidence, creating ease, and allowing beauty to feel like home again.

But how do you know when you’re truly ready for extensions? It’s not just about wanting longer hair,  it’s about timing, lifestyle, and readiness for a new level of care. Whether you’ve been thinking about extensions for months or you’re newly curious, here’s how to know if now is your moment.

 

1. You’re Craving a Change That Feels Like You

Hair is deeply tied to identity. Sometimes we reach a season where what used to work no longer fits,  a new chapter calls for something softer, fuller, or simply different. Extensions can be a beautiful way to transition without drastically changing your natural hair.

If you’ve been feeling stuck with your current look or noticing your confidence waver when styling your hair, it might be time to consider extensions. They can instantly help you feel polished, feminine, and effortlessly put together, especially when installed in a way that still looks natural and aligns with your personal style.

2. You’re Ready to Care for Your Hair with Intention

Luxury extensions require intentional care, and that’s what makes the difference between a beautiful install and one that doesn’t last.

Ask yourself:

  • Am I ready to invest in professional maintenance every 6–10 weeks?

  • Am I open to using high-quality, extension-safe products?

  • Do I have the time to brush and care for my extensions daily?

If you answered yes, you’re already in the right mindset. Extensions thrive when they’re treated as an investment, not just in your hair, but in your self-care ritual.

3. You’re in a Stable Hair Season

Extensions are safest and most seamless when your natural hair is in a healthy, stable place. This doesn’t mean your hair has to be “perfect”,  just that your scalp is balanced, and your strands aren’t overly compromised from breakage or chemical damage.

If your hair has recently gone through color correction, postpartum shedding, or major stress-related thinning, it may be worth giving it a few months to recover before adding extensions.

A stylist consultation can help determine your hair’s current health. In some cases, gentle methods like hand-tied or keratin bonds can actually protect your natural hair by distributing tension evenly and reducing over-styling  but only when installed and maintained correctly.

4. You’re Looking for Low-Stress Beauty

One of the most underrated benefits of extensions is the ease they bring. Mornings become faster. Styling takes less effort. Even a simple ponytail feels polished.

If your goal is to feel more put together with less daily effort, extensions might be the answer. Many of my clients say that the biggest shift wasn’t just how they looked,  it was how much time they saved. That extra 20 minutes in the morning can go toward something restorative: a slower coffee, journaling, or a moment of stillness before the day.

When extensions are customized to your lifestyle, they should lighten your routine, not complicate it.

5. You’re Emotionally Ready to Be Seen

This might sound unexpected, but it’s one of the most important parts.
Extensions can be transformative — and with transformation comes visibility. You’ll receive more compliments. You’ll feel people notice. You’ll see a new version of yourself reflected back in the mirror.

Sometimes that requires emotional readiness. You deserve to step into that confidence and to be seen in your fullness.

If you’re feeling a quiet pull toward transformation — not out of pressure, but out of self-alignment — that’s your sign that you’re ready.

6. You Value Quality and Connection

Extensions aren’t just about finding any stylist — they’re about finding someone who understands your lifestyle, your hair goals, and your aesthetic.
A proper consultation should feel like a collaboration, not a sales pitch. Together, you’ll explore:

  • Which method fits your hair type and lifestyle

  • How much fullness or length feels natural

  • What your long-term maintenance plan will look like

When your stylist becomes part of your beauty journey — not just your appointment — the experience turns into something intentional and luxurious, yet grounded and personal.

The Next Step: Book a Consultation

If reading this feels like a yes , even a quiet one , your next step is simple: book a complimentary consultation.

In our appointment, we’ll talk about your lifestyle, hair health, desired look, and which method would serve you best. From there, we’ll create a customized extension plan that feels natural, balanced, and aligned with your life.

Your dream hair isn’t just about appearance. It’s about alignment, the harmony between how you look and how you feel. When that aligns, everything flows.

Request a consultation here

How to Know What Hair Extension Method Is Best for Your Lifestyle

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Choosing hair extensions isn’t just about length — it’s about lifestyle. The right method should flow with how you live, move, and care for your hair day to day. At The Bonhomie House Co, we believe that luxury isn’t found in excess; it’s found in harmony. Your extensions should feel like a natural extension of you,  effortless, comfortable, and beautifully maintained.

Here’s how to discover which method best fits your rhythm, your beauty goals, and your daily routine.

Before we match your lifestyle to a method, it helps to know what makes each one unique.

1. Understanding the Main Methods

Hand-Tied Weft Extensions

Wefts are small, flat rows of hair that are sewn into your natural hair using tiny, hidden beads. They create seamless fullness and can add both volume and length. Wefts are customizable — you can wear one row for subtle fullness or multiple rows for a full transformation.

  • Maintenance: Move-up every 8–10 weeks

  • Longevity: Hair lasts 9–12 months with proper care

  • Lifestyle Fit: Perfect for women who love consistency and are willing to commit to regular appointments

Keratin Bond (K-Tip) Extensions

Keratin bonds are tiny individual strands fused to your hair using a keratin-based adhesive — the same protein that naturally makes up your hair. They move and behave like your own strands, creating the most natural, free-flowing result.

  • Maintenance: Full removal and reinstallation every 4–6 months

  • Longevity: Single wear per install

  • Lifestyle Fit: Great for clients who prefer low-maintenance, long-wear results without frequent salon visits

Tape-In Extensions

Tape-ins are pre-taped wefts that sandwich small sections of your natural hair. They install quickly and lay flat against the scalp for a soft, flexible finish.

  • Maintenance: Move-up every 6–8 weeks

  • Longevity: Hair can be reused up to 3–4 times

  • Lifestyle Fit: Ideal for busy schedules or those new to extensions

2. Your Lifestyle Determines Your Method

Your daily habits matter more than you might think when choosing an extension method. Let’s walk through a few real-world scenarios to help you visualize your best fit.

If You Live an Active Lifestyle

Do you hit the gym several times a week, swim, or wear your hair up often? You’ll want a method that’s flexible, durable, and low-maintenance.

    • Best Choice: Keratin Bond Extensions
      These move naturally, resist tangling, and stay secure through frequent washing and movement.

    • Pro Tip: Use a sweat-friendly dry shampoo and gentle detangling brush to keep the bonds clean and tangle-free.

If You Love a Polished, High-Maintenance Look

If you enjoy a salon visit as part of your self-care ritual, you might actually prefer the consistency of maintenance appointments.

  • Best Choice: Hand-Tied Wefts
    They’re perfect for those who want maximum fullness and are happy to schedule move-ups every 8–10 weeks.

  • Pro Tip: Treat move-up appointments as your “hair ritual” — pair them with a gloss or hydration treatment for full renewal.

If You Have Fine or Fragile Hair

When your natural hair is delicate, it’s important to choose a method that’s gentle and evenly distributed.

  • Best Choice: Tape-Ins or Light Weft Installations
    Both methods can be customized to minimize tension. Tape-ins lay flat, while lightweight wefts distribute weight evenly across the scalp.

  • Pro Tip: Combine a nourishing scalp treatment with your installs to promote growth and scalp comfort.

If You’re Always On the Go

If you travel frequently or prefer a “set it and forget it” kind of hair routine, long-wearing methods will suit you best.

  • Best Choice: Keratin Bonds
    These extensions last several months without the need for move-ups. You’ll enjoy freedom from constant salon scheduling.

  • Pro Tip: Pack a silk pillowcase and detangling brush when you travel, small rituals keep your extensions luxurious longer.

If You’re a Minimalist or First-Time Extension Wearer

Trying extensions for the first time? Start simple.

  • Best Choice: Tape-Ins or One-Row Wefts
    These offer an introduction to extensions without the full-time commitment. You’ll experience volume, movement, and softness while learning what your hair loves.

  • Pro Tip: Keep your at-home routine simple but intentional — sulfate-free shampoo, nourishing oil on mid-lengths and ends, and weekly hydration masks.

3. Consider Your Long-Term Hair Goals

Each method serves a purpose but your hair’s future matters, too.

If you’re growing out your natural hair or recovering from breakage, your stylist may recommend starting with a gentler, lighter method. As your hair strengthens, you can transition into longer-lasting options like wefts or keratin bonds.

Think of your extensions as part of a long-term care plan, not just a single moment of transformation.

At The Bonhomie House Co, we help you build that plan intentionally with scalp care, bond repair, and customized home rituals that ensure your natural hair grows beautifully underneath your extensions.

4. The Power of a Consultation

While research helps, the best way to know what method suits your lifestyle is through an in-person consultation.

During your Consultation, we assess:

  • Your hair texture, density, and condition

  • Your daily habits (workouts, styling, maintenance preferences)

  • Your dream aesthetic (length, volume, or both)

  • Your long-term budget and schedule

From there, we design a completely custom plan, sometimes even blending multiple methods for a perfect fit (like wefts + keratin bonds for a hybrid look).

It’s not just about choosing extensions; it’s about creating a beauty rhythm that feels easy, intentional, and uniquely you.

5. Your Hair, Your Lifestyle, Your Story

Extensions should never feel like high-maintenance work, they should move with you. The right method feels natural, effortless, and empowering, allowing you to show up as your most confident self every day.

When your hair flows with your lifestyle, it becomes more than just an accessory, it becomes an extension of your identity.

We specialize in helping women find that harmony between beauty, care, and individuality. Whether you’re drawn to the timeless flow of wefts, the elegance of keratin bonds, or the simplicity of tape-ins, we’ll guide you with expertise and intention.

Ready to Discover Your Perfect Match?

Book your Extension Consultation today and let’s design a hair experience that complements your lifestyle; beautifully, naturally, and with ease.

How to Know If Your Hair is Ready for Extensions

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How to Know If Your Hair Is Ready for Extensions

There’s something deeply transformative about hair extensions. They don’t just add length or volume — they restore confidence, movement, and a sense of ease to your beauty ritual. But before saying yes to new hair, there’s one question every guest should ask: Is my hair ready for extensions?

At The Bonhomie House Co, we believe that true luxury begins with care,  not just the look, but the health beneath it. Extensions should enhance your natural hair, never compromise it. Here’s how to know if your hair (and your lifestyle) is ready for the investment.

Why Hair Extensions are Great!

1. Your Scalp and Hair Are Healthy Enough to Support Extensions

Extensions rely on the strength of your natural hair. If your scalp is dry, inflamed, or overly sensitive, or if your hair is breaking easily, it’s best to restore its health before adding weight or tension.

Here’s how to tell your hair is ready:

  • You can brush and detangle easily without excessive shedding.

  • Your scalp feels balanced, not tight, sore, or flaky.

  • You’ve had minimal chemical stress (like recent bleaching or chemical straightening).

If you’re unsure, schedule a scalp analysis or treatment before your extension consultation. A healthy scalp ensures your extensions last longer, look better, and protect the integrity of your natural hair. Think of it as preparing your canvas before painting ,the healthier the foundation, the more beautiful the result.

Pro Tip: Our Nourished Scalp Treatments and gentle Arete hair care line can help rebalance your scalp and strengthen fragile strands before installation.

2. You’re Willing to Commit to Maintenance and Care

Luxury extensions aren’t just a one-time transformation, they’re an ongoing partnership between you, your stylist, and your routine.

Every method requires a level of care:

  • Weft extensions need move-ups every 8–10 weeks.

  • Keratin bonds are replaced about every 4–6 months.

  • Tape-ins need reapplication every 6–8 weeks.

If you’re ready to set aside time for professional maintenance and at-home rituals, your hair will thank you. The most seamless, effortless looks come from consistency.

At Bonhomie, we love helping guests build that ritual from teaching the perfect brushing technique to selecting the right hydrating products to prevent tangling or slippage.

3. You’re Comfortable Investing in Quality Hair and Products

Extensions are a luxury service, and like any meaningful investment, the quality shows in both the immediate results and the long-term wear.

Premium extensions , ethically sourced, double-drawn, and professionally installed, blend naturally, last longer, and maintain their silkiness through months of wear. But they also require high-quality aftercare: sulfate-free shampoos, nourishing masks, and gentle detanglers designed specifically for extension wear.

If you’re ready to invest in quality products and regular salon visits, you’ll enjoy a softer, more natural result that truly lasts.

Remember: cheap extensions or shortcuts in aftercare often lead to damage and shorter wear time, costing more in the long run. Your hair deserves the same standard of care as the luxury it represents.

4. You’re Emotionally Ready for the Transformation

This part often goes unspoken but it’s so important.


Extensions can change how you feel about yourself, how you move, and even how you show up in the world. It’s an emotional upgrade as much as a physical one.

If you’ve been longing for fuller hair or have experienced thinning or breakage, extensions can be incredibly healing. They can help you reconnect with your femininity, your confidence, and your creativity.

But it’s also important to feel mentally ready for the responsibility, the brushing routines, the appointments, the products. Think of it as entering a new beauty rhythm, one that feels soft, intentional, and worthy of your energy.

5. You’ve Consulted with a Professional Stylist

An in-person consultation is essential. This is where your stylist will assess your hair’s strength, density, and goals to determine the best method, whether that’s hand-tied wefts, keratin bonds, or tape-ins.

During your consultation we’ll walk through:

  • Your hair history and current condition

  • Your lifestyle and daily styling habits

  • Your desired length, fullness, and tone

  • A long-term plan for maintenance and care

We also talk about budgeting and extension longevity, ensuring your investment feels aligned with your lifestyle. It’s not just about choosing the right method, it’s about creating a look that supports your confidence and your schedule.

6. You’re Ready for a Season of Soft, Intentional Beauty

When your scalp feels healthy, your hair is strong, and your mind is ready for the commitment, that’s when you’re truly ready for extensions.

It’s not about perfection, it’s about partnership. Extensions work best when they’re part of a routine built around nourishment, consistency, and care.

Here we see every guest’s journey as a story of transformation — one that starts with care and evolves into confidence. Whether it’s your first set of extensions or your next chapter, we’ll guide you with honesty, artistry, and grace.

Ready to Begin?

Book your Extension Consultation or request a consultation today and let’s discover what your next season of beauty can look like  full, soft, and perfectly you.

A Local’s Guide to Visiting and Refreshing at TRU Hair Salon

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Finding Beauty and Balance in Colorado Springs, CO: A Local’s Guide to Visiting and Refreshing at TRU Hair Salon

Colorado Springs is one of those places that seems to hold its breath in the presence of beauty. Nestled at the base of the majestic Pikes Peak, the city feels both grounded and expansive, a blend of rugged mountain landscapes, serene neighborhoods, and an ever-growing creative scene. Whether you’re a traveler searching for a moment of stillness or a local rediscovering your own backyard, there’s something deeply renewing about life here.

 

Between the crisp mountain air, the slow mornings filled with sunlight, and the sense of connection to nature, Colorado Springs has a way of grounding you. It’s a city where wellness and beauty aren’t about excess—they’re about intention, balance, and authenticity.

And when it comes to capturing that same essence in your self-care routine, TRU Hair Salon is where it all comes together.

A City Built on Natural Beauty

Colorado Springs is often described as the perfect meeting point of elegance and adventure. One moment you’re sipping coffee in a cozy downtown café with mountain views; the next, you’re hiking through the red rock formations at Garden of the Gods. The city moves at a slower rhythm than Denver, yet it carries its own quiet sophistication, a reflection of the people who live here.

Art galleries, boutique shops, and small businesses thrive here because they carry stories. Every space feels personal and crafted with intention. There’s a strong undercurrent of community, a shared desire to live beautifully, not busily.

That same energy runs through the self-care and beauty spaces in town. People here are not just looking for a new hairstyle; they’re looking for transformation that feels natural, sustainable, and reflective of who they are.

The TRU Hair Salon Experience

Located in the heart of Colorado Springs, TRU Hair Salon isn’t just another hair salon, it’s an experience rooted in artistry and care. From the moment you walk in, the space invites you to exhale. The atmosphere is modern yet grounded, with a sense of warmth that makes you feel immediately at ease.

At TRU, beauty isn’t rushed. The stylists take time to understand your lifestyle, your texture, your tone, and your goals. It’s a personalized experience designed to highlight your natural beauty rather than mask it. Whether you’re booking a full color transformation, a lived-in blonde session, or a luxury scalp treatment, every service feels intentional, crafted to leave you looking radiant and feeling restored.

One of TRU’s standout offerings is its commitment to scalp and hair health. The stylists emphasize nurturing the foundation of your hair through custom treatments and clean, high-performance products. It’s not just about leaving with beautiful hair; it’s about ensuring your hair continues to thrive long after your appointment.

Each stylist at TRU brings their own creative touch and expertise, but all share the same philosophy: beauty should feel effortless and aligned with who you are.

Where Beauty Meets Lifestyle

If you’re planning to visit Colorado Springs—or even if you already call it home, pairing your salon experience with some of the city’s most peaceful, restorative moments makes for the perfect day.

Start your morning with a latte and croissant at Loyal Coffee, a local favorite known for its artisan blends and creative energy. Then, take a walk through Garden of the Gods, where the sunlight glows over the red rock formations like something out of a dream.

After your TRU appointment, treat yourself to a meal at Four by Brother Luck, one of the city’s most loved restaurants offering seasonal dishes inspired by the four corners of the region. The balance of artistry and authenticity in each meal mirrors the kind of care and intention you’ll find at the salon.

Round out your day with a sunset drive up Gold Camp Road or a peaceful stroll through North Cheyenne Cañon Park. There’s something deeply nourishing about watching the sky shift colors over the mountains, especially when you feel refreshed and confident after a day of self-care.

Why TRU Hair Salon Belongs on Every Visitor’s List

Colorado Springs attracts people seeking experiences that feel real, not curated for perfection, but crafted for connection. TRU Hair Salon embodies that same philosophy.

It’s a space where artistry meets mindfulness. Where hair care becomes self-care. Where you leave not only looking beautiful but feeling more like yourself.

Whether you’re a traveler passing through the mountains, a creative soul seeking inspiration, or someone ready for a fresh start, visiting TRU is an opportunity to reconnect with your own sense of beauty and balance.

Because in a city that celebrates natural wonder, your hair should feel just as radiant and alive as the landscape around you.

Styling Tips for Freshly Blonde Hair

Visit TRU Hair Salon

If you find yourself in Colorado Springs, CO, make time for a visit to TRU Hair Salon. Experience what it means to receive care that’s both artistic and intentional—where every detail, from the consultation to the finish, reflects the essence of Colorado living: natural, graceful, and true.

Why Scalp Health Matters: The Case for Regular Scalp Treatments

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Hair Alchemy: Arete

In this blog, we’ll dive into why scalp health matters, the benefits of scalp treatments, and what you can expect from adding them into your beauty routine.

When we think of healthy, beautiful hair, our minds often go straight to the strands themselves—shiny, silky, smooth, and styled. But here’s the truth:

Healthy hair begins at the scalp. Just as glowing skin relies on a well-nurtured complexion, strong and vibrant hair depends on the foundation it grows from. That’s where scalp treatments come in. They’re not just a luxury service—they’re a necessity for anyone who wants their hair to thrive.

The Root of Radiance: Why Scalp Health Is the True Foundation of Beautiful Hair

When we think about healthy hair, our attention often goes to the lengths, the shine, the softness, the way it falls. Yet, the real secret to beautiful hair begins at the source: the scalp. Much like healthy soil nurtures a thriving garden, your scalp is the fertile ground from which every strand grows. Neglecting it can lead to dryness, buildup, irritation, and even slow growth. Nurturing it, however, creates the perfect environment for balance, strength, and effortless beauty.

This is where scalp treatments step in, not as a luxury, but as a necessary act of care and restoration.

Why the Scalp Needs Care

Our scalp endures more than we realize. From environmental stressors and product buildup to hard water and heat styling, it’s easy for the follicles to become congested. Over time, this can cause excess oil, flakiness, or inflammation, blocking nutrients and oxygen from reaching the roots.

Just as we exfoliate and hydrate our skin, our scalp needs a similar ritual of cleansing, stimulation, and nourishment. Regular scalp treatments encourage circulation, balance oil production, and remove impurities so that new hair can grow stronger and more vibrant.

Healthy hair isn’t built overnight—it’s cultivated from a foundation of consistent scalp wellness.

The Art of Scalp Treatments

A professional scalp treatment is an intentional pause, a moment to reconnect with yourself while giving your hair what it truly needs. The process often begins with a detoxifying cleanse to lift away buildup, followed by gentle exfoliation and a nutrient-rich mask or tonic to restore moisture and balance.

This ritual not only revives the scalp but also awakens the senses. The massage portion of the treatment is essential, encouraging blood flow, relieving tension, and offering a grounding experience that connects beauty to wellness.

When done regularly, these treatments can transform the overall health and longevity of your hair. Think of them as monthly maintenance for your crown, a way to keep your scalp balanced, clear, and thriving.

The Arete Approach

I’ve chosen Arete as our partner in scalp wellness for a reason. The name itself: meaning “excellence” or “the pursuit of one’s highest self”—perfectly mirrors the intention behind holistic hair care.

Arete’s formulations are crafted with integrity: clean, high-performance ingredients that work in harmony with the body rather than against it. Their scalp line is especially designed to restore vitality at the root level through plant-based extracts, lightweight botanicals, and essential oils that purify without stripping.

One of the brand’s hero products, the Arete Scalp Renewal Serum, helps soothe irritation and stimulate growth while maintaining the scalp’s natural balance. Paired with the Arete Cleansing Concentrate, it provides a sensorial ritual that feels both therapeutic and transformative. Each product supports the idea that self-care and scalp care are not separate—they are one continuous act of honoring your well-being.

A Ritual of Grace

Incorporating scalp treatments into your beauty routine is an invitation to slow down and reconnect. Whether you visit the salon for a professional service or create your own mindful ritual at home with Arete, the intention remains the same: to nourish your foundation so your hair and your spirit can flourish.

When we tend to our scalp with care and awareness, we do more than encourage growth. We cultivate softness, strength, and radiance from the inside out.

Because true beauty doesn’t begin at the ends, it begins at the root.

 

How to Ask for the Cut You Really Want

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Always a drink on our hand and the shears in another. We live of coffee, smoothies, and drinks. 

Haircuts might look simple from the outside, but behind every effortless style is a trained eye, steady hands, and years of practice. Cutting hair isn’t just about picking up scissors and trimming ends; it’s about balance, precision, and understanding the way hair moves, grows, and frames your face.

A great haircut can boost confidence, change your look entirely, and make daily styling easier.

That’s why haircutting is such a respected skill in the beauty industry, and why clear communication with your stylist is so important when you’re in the chair.

The Art and Science of Haircutting

A good haircut blends artistry with technique. Every stylist studies the structure of the head, the natural growth patterns of hair, and how different textures respond to certain cuts. For example, curly hair requires a different approach than straight hair, and fine hair needs techniques that create movement without losing volume.

There’s also geometry involved; angles, elevation, and precision lines that determine how the hair falls. A layered cut isn’t just random pieces being chopped shorter; it’s a calculated design that works with your face shape, personal style, and maintenance preferences. When a stylist cuts your hair, they’re considering:

  • Face Shape: Which shapes and lengths will complement your features.

  • Hair Texture: How your natural hair behaves and what will enhance it.

  • Lifestyle: How much time you realistically want to spend styling daily.

  • Trends vs. Timeless: Balancing what’s current with what will look great on you.

It’s this thoughtful balance of creativity and technical knowledge that makes haircutting such a specialized skill.

Why Communication Matters

Even the most talented stylist can’t read your mind. That’s why communication is the foundation of a successful haircut. Many clients feel nervous about explaining what they want or worry about being “too picky,” but your stylist actually wants to hear specifics.

Clear communication helps both of you. It ensures you leave with a cut you love and allows your stylist to showcase their expertise in a way that fits your vision.

How to Ask for the Haircut You Want

Here are some tips to make sure you and your stylist are on the same page:

  1. Bring Photos
    Visuals are the best tool for communication. Words like “layered” or “bob” mean different things to different people, but a picture leaves less room for misinterpretation. Bring 2–3 reference photos and point out what you specifically like about each.

  2. Be Honest About Maintenance
    If you only want to spend five minutes styling your hair in the morning, say so. Your stylist can adjust the cut so it works with your lifestyle instead of against it.

  3. Use Descriptive Words
    Words like “soft,” “textured,” “blunt,” or “flowy” help guide the direction of your cut. Pairing these with visuals makes your communication even stronger.

  4. Talk About Length in Detail
    Instead of saying “just a trim,” show where you’d like your hair to fall—collarbone, shoulders, or mid-back. Using fingers to indicate length helps your stylist see exactly what you mean.

  5. Ask Questions
    Don’t be afraid to ask your stylist how the haircut will grow out or what products they recommend. A good haircut isn’t just about the day you leave the salon, it’s about how it evolves over the next few months.

Building Trust with Your Stylist

The best haircuts come from long-term relationships. The more your stylist gets to know you, your lifestyle, and your preferences, the better they can tailor each cut. Trust builds over time, and communication keeps that relationship strong.

Remember: your haircut is a collaboration. Your stylist brings the skill and artistry, and you bring the vision. Together, you can create something that feels authentic to you and enhances your natural beauty.

Final Thoughts

Haircutting is more than a service, it’s a craft. Every snip is backed by technical knowledge, creativity, and years of practice. And while stylists bring the skill, the client’s voice is just as important in the process.

By clearly communicating your wants, showing inspiration photos, and being honest about your lifestyle, you set the stage for a haircut that not only looks amazing but also works for you.

So next time you sit in the chair, remember this: a great haircut is a collaboration between artistry and communication. When those two things come together, the result is nothing short of transformative.

The Soft Blonde Look: How to Ask for It and What to Expect

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Blonde hair will always be a classic, but in recent years, the trend has shifted from bright platinum and high-contrast highlights to a more natural, seamless shade known as soft blonde. It’s sophisticated, effortless, and flattering on almost everyone. But if you’re considering this color, it’s important to understand how to ask for it in the salon, what to expect during the process, and how to manage your expectations when it comes to achieving and maintaining the look.

What is Soft Blonde?

Soft blonde is all about creating a natural, lived-in shade that looks sun-kissed rather than over-processed. Think creamy tones, subtle dimension, and seamless blending from roots to ends. Unlike platinum or icy blondes that require frequent upkeep, soft blonde grows out beautifully, allowing for a lower-maintenance routine while still feeling polished and intentional.

It often combines warm and cool tones, giving hair movement and depth. The result is a blonde that looks timeless, flattering, and easy to wear, perfect for clients who want to brighten their look without feeling “too blonde.”

What to Expect at the Appointment

Going soft blonde is not always a one-session transformation, especially if your natural color is dark or you’ve colored your hair before. Here’s what to expect:

  1. Consultation First: Your stylist will talk through your goals, hair history, and lifestyle before creating a plan.

  2. Lightening in Sections: Expect techniques like foilyage, balayage, or baby lights that strategically lighten your hair while keeping depth at the roots.

  3. Toning is Key: A toner or gloss will refine the shade, cancel out unwanted brassiness, and create that soft, creamy finish.

  4. Time Commitment: Plan for 3–6 hours depending on your starting point, length, and thickness. Multiple sessions may be needed for darker starting shades.

  5. Investment: Because soft blonde involves detail work, toning, and sometimes multiple steps, the service often costs more than traditional highlights.

Managing Expectations

This is one of the most important parts of going blonde. While soft blonde is achievable for many people, the process looks different depending on where you’re starting:

  • If Your Hair is Dark: Expect a gradual journey. Your stylist will likely recommend lifting your hair slowly over several sessions to keep it healthy.

  • If Your Hair is Already Light: Achieving soft blonde may be quicker, but your stylist will still focus on refining tone and blending to get that seamless effect.

  • If You Have Color Build-Up: Previously colored hair (especially dark or red dyes) can take more effort to lift. Patience and multiple appointments may be necessary.

Healthy hair is always the priority. Sometimes this means stopping short of your “perfect blonde” in the first session to preserve your hair’s integrity. Trust your stylist’s process—they’re working to give you both the color you want and the hair health you need.

How to Maintain Soft Blonde

The beauty of soft blonde is that it’s lower maintenance than other blonding techniques, but it still requires care.

  • Gloss/Toner Refresh: Every 8–12 weeks, book a toner or gloss service to keep your shade fresh and eliminate brassiness.

  • Quality Haircare: Use sulfate-free shampoo and hydrating conditioner. A purple shampoo once a week can help keep your blonde creamy.

  • Hydration and Repair: Incorporate a deep-conditioning or bond-building treatment weekly to maintain strength and softness.

  • Heat Protection: Always use a heat protectant before blow-drying or styling. Soft blonde tones fade faster with heat damage.

  • UV Protection: The sun can cause fading and brassiness—wear hats or use UV-protectant sprays if you spend time outdoors.

The Bottom Line

Soft blonde is one of the most wearable, flattering hair colors you can choose. It’s timeless, modern, and grows out beautifully, making it perfect for clients who want to feel effortlessly polished. By communicating clearly with your stylist, managing your expectations, and taking care of your hair at home, you’ll not only achieve the soft blonde look but also maintain it with confidence.

Blonde isn’t just a color; it’s an experience. And when done right, soft blonde can feel like the perfect balance between natural beauty and professional artistry.

How to Ask for Soft Blonde

One of the most common challenges in the salon is language. “Blonde” can mean a hundred different things depending on who you ask. That’s why being specific is key when communicating with your stylist. Here’s how to make sure you’re both on the same page:

    • Bring Pictures: Visuals speak louder than words. Save images of blondes you love, focusing on tones and overall vibe rather than celebrity faces. Your stylist can then assess whether those shades work with your skin tone and hair history.

    • Use Words Like “Soft,” “Natural,” and “Seamless”: These terms communicate that you want dimension and low contrast, not chunky highlights or solid bleach blonde.

    • Talk About Maintenance: Let your stylist know how often you’re willing to come back for touch-ups. If you want fewer visits, they may suggest a lived-in or balayage approach.

    • Be Honest About Your Hair History: Previous color, lightening, or at-home dye jobs all affect what’s achievable and how long it will take to get there.

GRWM: Finding Balance in Work and Life

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A Day in the Life of a Hairstylist: Finding Balance in Work and Life

Sometimes this calls for romanticizing the mundane things in life

Being a hairstylist is one of the most rewarding careers, but it’s also one of the most demanding. Behind the chair, we’re not just cutting and coloring hair; we’re artists, listeners, business owners, and sometimes even therapists (which many are probably not qualified for) so it’s best to say that we are a friend in the best professional setting. This a real multi-tasking career

It takes creativity, energy, and focus to give every client the experience they deserve, all while keeping our personal lives in balance.

Here’s a glimpse into a typical day, along with tips that make the chaos manageable and relatable.

Morning Routine: Setting the Tone

Most hairstylists start their day before their first client even walks through the door. Mornings are about grounding ourselves, preparing mentally, and setting a positive tone for the day.

  • Wake up early: A quiet morning before the salon opens gives you space to plan your day without distractions.

  • Mindset practice: Take 10–15 minutes to journal, meditate, or set intentions. This helps you stay centered and present with every client.

This for me is an essential part which I like to intermingle with “going to the gym” which I will do this right after the gym. Without this I am a little scatter brained at work.

  • Workout: A short gym session, yoga flow, or even a brisk walk energizes your body and releases tension before standing all day.

For myself, personally… going to the gym/ yoga/pilates a few hours before work helps me to wake up and set an intention for the day that will bring my best self to work. 

  • Breakfast: Fueling your body with protein and complex carbs keeps your energy steady through back-to-back appointments.

What your feed the body is just as important as to what your feed your mind

In the Salon: Creativity Meets Connection

Once I am in the salon, the real work begins. Each client brings a unique personality and hair story. From cuts and color to styling and consultations, juggling multiple skills at once. We don’t usually know what the day has in store for us unless they are a return client.

Tips for surviving and thriving during a busy salon day or at the office!

  • Stay hydrated: Keep a water bottle handy to stay refreshed. It’s easy to forget when you’re moving from client to client.

  • Stretch often: Quick stretches between clients help prevent back, shoulder, and wrist fatigue.

  • Mindful communication: Listening actively to clients and clarifying expectations avoids misunderstandings and ensures they leave happy.

  • Time management: Build in buffer time between appointments to avoid running late and to give yourself a breather.

At-Home Routine: Recharging Your Energy

After a full day of creating and connecting, the evening is when I like to  recharge my body and mind. Balancing work, health, and personal growth is key to staying passionate and energized.

Here’s a simple daily hair and self-care routine that keeps me (and anyone!) feeling their best:

Hair Routine:

  1. Wash hair 2–3 times per week with sulfate-free shampoo. I personally like to wash 1- 2 days a week using Oway Moisturizing Shampoo and Aerte Conditioning Creme

  2. Use a deep conditioning mask once a weekly

  3. Apply heat protectant before styling

  4. Use lightweight oils or serums to tame frizz and add shine. This also helps to seal the ends preventing them from breakage

  5. Sleep on a silk or satin pillowcase

The Mindset Behind the Chair

One of the most important aspects of being a hairstylist is mindset. A positive, patient, and adaptable attitude makes every appointment smoother and more enjoyable, for both me and my clients.

  • Celebrate small wins: Whether it’s a client compliment, finishing a complex color, or mastering a new technique, acknowledge progress.

  • Practice gratitude: Take a moment each day to reflect on your clients, your skills, and the opportunity to do work you love.

  • Set boundaries: Protect your time, energy, and mental health by knowing when to say no and planning personal days.

Balancing Life and Passion

Being a hairstylist isn’t just a job; it’s a lifestyle. The key to longevity and happiness in this career is balance. That means embracing your craft while also making time for self-care, personal growth, and loved ones.

Some days are long, some clients are challenging, and some styles take hours to perfect. But by prioritizing health, mindset, and intentional routines, hairstylists can thrive both behind the chair and outside of it.

Final Thoughts

Life as a hairstylist is a beautiful mix of creativity, connection, and hustle. By staying organized, maintaining a self-care routine, and nurturing personal growth, it’s possible to love your career while also loving your life.

From early mornings with journaling and workouts to evenings filled with reading, cooking, and podcasts, balance doesn’t just happen; it’s created intentionally. And when you approach your day with focus, gratitude, and care, every haircut, color, and style becomes more than just a service, it becomes a craft fueled by passion and energy. This isn’t just for hairstylists but for all us trying to show up as our best. 

Self-Care & Lifestyle Tips Overview:

  • Exercise: 30–60 minutes at the gym or home workout keeps energy high and relieves stress.

  • Cooking: Preparing balanced meals ensures your body is nourished for long salon days.

  • Reading: Even 15–20 minutes a day of a book or article fuels inspiration and personal growth.

  • Podcasts: Listening to educational or uplifting podcasts while commuting or prepping for the day keeps your mind engaged.

  • Sleep: Aim for 7–8 hours of rest to recharge physically and mentally for the next day.